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Does loneliness get worse in the winter?

Yes, loneliness can get worse in the winter. The darkness and cold weather often make people feel more isolated from others, especially if they are already feeling lonely.

This can be compounded by the fact that holidays, like Christmas, can bring additional feelings of loneliness for those who don’t have family or friends to celebrate with. Additionally, the tendency to stay inside and curl up with a book or movie can further add to the sense of isolation.

Of course, it's important to note that everyone experiences loneliness differently. Some people may find more solace in the winter months because they feel like they have time for introspection and self-care.

When the weather is cold and the days are shorter, people may avoid going outside and sitting in your home can make you feel more lonely.

I know that I personally experience more sad and depressing moments when it's dark and cold out because I just don't enjoy spending as much time outdoors when it's too cold.

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Why does winter cause people to feel sad?

Winter can be a difficult season for many people because it's associated with shorter days and colder temperatures.

This can lead to decreased sunlight, which has been linked to lower serotonin levels (the hormone responsible for mood regulation).

It also tends to disrupt our circadian rhythm, or body clock, causing us to experience difficulty sleeping and other health issues. In addition, winter can be a time of year when people may feel more isolated and alone due to the holidays or inclement weather.

Finally, it can make us more prone to Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), which is a type of depression that occurs during certain times of the year, typically in late autumn and winter. Seasonal Affective Disorder is thought to be caused by a combination of factors, including reduced sunlight and lower serotonin levels.

SAD is also known as the "winter blues" and is estimated to affect around 10 million people in the US.

It's important to remember that if you're feeling depressed or lonely during the winter months, there are ways to cope and make it through this difficult season.

What are common symptoms of seasonal depression?

SAD symptoms typically start to show up in late fall or early winter and disappear throughout the longer, sunnier days of spring and summer.

Less frequently, individuals following the reverse pattern experience symptoms in the spring or summer. In either instance, symptoms could be moderate at first and worsen as the season goes on.

Take note that I am not giving any medical advice or diagnosis, this information is simply here for informative purposes.

Some common symptoms of winter depression include (but are not limited to):

  • feeling a constant sense of sadness

  • feeling unmotivated

  • having low energy levels

  • feeling sluggish throughout the day

  • negative thoughts

  • weight gain

  • overeating

  • craving fast food

  • sleep problems

  • feelings of guilt

  • hopelessness

How to deal with loneliness in the winter

Here are a few methods to deal with the winter blues:

Connect with other people

The best way to handle loneliness in the winter is to make an effort to connect with others. Reach out to friends and family, join a group or club that meets regularly, or volunteer your time at a local charity. Making an effort to stay social can help you feel less lonely during the cold winter months.

If you're super introverted like I am, you can still connect with people online. I have found solace in online communities and even just talking to people on Whatsapp or Facebook has helped me feel less alone.

Stay healthy & be outdoors

It’s also important to take care of your emotional wellbeing by practicing healthy habits such as exercising and getting enough sleep. Eating good, nutritious meals can also help you stay in a positive frame of mind.

Walking and being active outdoors can also be beneficial, even if it’s cold. Being in nature can help to boost your mood and make you feel less isolated. You might've tried it already but if you walk, even when you don't feel like it, you can clear your mind and boost your mood, even if it's a temporary feeling.

Grab some waterproof winter boots and get walking or hiking!


Another practical step you can take is to expose yourself to more light. Whether that's walking outside when there's a bit of sun out, or using light therapy lamps, light can help you.

Phototherapy is especially helpful for those with SAD, as research has shown that exposure to bright light during the day can help reduce symptoms of depression.

During phototherapy, individuals sit in front of a bright light therapy box, which emits ultraviolet-free fluorescent light. The goal is to help the person's body produce more serotonin, which is thought to improve mood and reduce symptoms of depression.

I recommend light therapy lamps because they are designed to simulate sunlight and can help fight off the winter blues.

Add a light therapy lamp into your bedroom. The advantage is that these artificial lights don't contain any UV rays, so you still won't have to worry about skin damage.

It's also important to try and make sure that your environment has some bright colors around it, as this can help lift the mood. Find items in your home that are fun and colorful, or maybe hang up some brightly colored postcards or artwork on the walls.

Practice more self-care

Finally, take some time for yourself. Spend an evening curled up with a good book or movie, spend time in nature when the weather permits, or explore a new hobby. These activities can help you stay connected to yourself and manage your loneliness during the winter months.

Self care mean different things for different people. For some, it can mean taking a long bath and reading or listening to music; for others, self-care could mean getting enough sleep and eating healthy. The point is to make sure you are taking care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally.

Final thoughts

Winter can be a difficult season for many of us, but it doesn't have to be. By taking the time to acknowledge your feelings and trying some of these tips, you can make it through the winter feeling more connected and less lonely.

I've been through the winter blues myself, and I know how hard it can be. But I also know that if we take care of ourselves and reach out for help when needed, we can make it through this season feeling good.

No matter what you're going through during the winter months, remember to be kind to yourself. With some TLC and a little effort, you can make it through this season feeling refreshed and renewed. Good luck!

Good Luck! :)

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