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Why You’re Not Getting Enough REM Sleep (And the Quiet Fix That Actually Works)
Sleep isn’t one long, continuous state. It moves in cycles—quietly, repeatedly—throughout the night. About every 90 minutes, your body shifts between different stages: Light sleep (where you drift in and out) Deep sleep (where your body repairs itself) And REM sleep—the stage where your mind becomes active again Each cycle builds on the last. And as the night goes on, something interesting happens: Your REM sleep gets longer. That means the early part of the night is more phy

Tina
Apr 225 min read


12 Calming Hobby Ideas for People with Anxious Attachment Style
If you have an anxious attachment style , you probably know what it feels like to live in a constant hum of emotional static — a kind of background noise that says “what if they leave?” or “why didn’t they text back?” even when everything seems fine. You care deeply, connect intensely, and often feel things more vividly than most people around you. But that same depth can make relationships — and downtime — emotionally exhausting. Here’s the thing: one of the best ways to s

Tina
Nov 6, 20257 min read


The Paradox of Seeking Help: Unraveling Our Reluctance to Share Struggles
In a world that often celebrates self-reliance and stoicism, admitting to struggles or seeking help can feel like navigating a complex...

Tina
Feb 18, 20245 min read


Is meditation right for you?
Let me preface this blog post by saying that I'm no master of meditation and I am just starting out. I don't even know the basics yet, so...

Tina
Mar 2, 20223 min read


Got sciatic nerve pain? Try these calming low impact exercises and stretches
There's nothing quite like waking up with sciatic nerve pain and then struggling to walk for days or even weeks. I've been there, and...

Tina
Dec 2, 20214 min read


10 Tips to Get More Sleep Each Night
Do you struggle with sleeping? Do you tend to wake up in the middle of the night? Are you having a hard time falling asleep? It can be so...

Tina
Nov 16, 20215 min read
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